Change is necessary, but not all change is good. It is the revolution of the future. We need change for growth and prosperity. But
what is Change?
The word CHANGE means: To become different, renewed or anew; a shift in
paradigm - from ones current state to new desired state.
Personally, I am not one to advocate CHANGE. Unless of course,
you are doing it for you and NOT for someone else. You see; in any event, one MUST want or need
to change in order for change to take place in the first place, and we hope for the better. We cannot be going about telling people to be
their "authentic self" and then; in the same breath, tell them to change. Change for what? We must all live the life we love and love
the life we live; so long as it is a life DEVOID of the four BIG "NESSES".
In order to live a BOLD AND CONFIDENT LIFE one must first
devoid one’s self of what I call the four BIG NESSES and/or the tell-tale signs
of LOW OR NO SELF-ESTEEM:
Disrespectfulness:
RUDE, DISCOURTEOUS, SARCASTIC,
CONTEMPTUOUS, YELLING, ♥CAUSING
ANGER OR ANNOYANCE, SPEAKING OR ACTING IN SUCH
A WAY
Ungratefulness:
UNTHANKFUL, UNAPPRECIATIVE, UNPLEASANT, ♥NOT GIVING DUE
RETURN OR RECOMPENSE FOR BENEFITS RECEIVED
Mean-Spiritedness:
COWARDLY, CRAVEN, DISLOYAL, BULLYING, MALICIOUS, PETTY, ♥UNTRUE,
HATEFUL, JEALOUS, ♥ALWAYS WANTING TO HURT OTHERS CONSCIOUSLY OR INNATELY
Weakness:
ARE
YOU A PUSHOVER, THE AGREEABLE ONE, ♥LACKING FIRMNESS OF CHARACTER OR
STRENGTH IN WILL, EASILY DEFEATED ♥TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF, SELF-PITY OR VICTIMIZED SYNDROME
DO NOT BE AFRAID TO ASSERT YOURSELF OR EVEN BECOME THE “PROVERBIAL B!TCH”, IF IT MEANS STANDING UP FOR YOUSELF AND YOUR WELL-BEING.
These four NESSES are life’s greatness ENERGY ZAPPERS. They serve no other purpose other than to hold US back from attaining our full potential, personal balance
and spiritual richness. If you are holding on to any of these, I beg you, let it go!
You need to be REFORMED if you:
- Always twist the truth to make others look bad or sympathize with you
- Are a Notorious liar
- A Thief, or
- A Menace to society.
How does one change?
In order to change, we must be serious about change. Change
must be a personal commitment and a ritual for it to take place. We can change
by doing one or all of the followings:
- First acknowledge the need for change
- Be willing to RE-LEARN and break old cycles or patterns
- READ Self-help books and Article or listen to Audio CDs and the likes – Knowledge is Power is the Key
- Enlist the HELP of a Personal Development Life coach or a Counsellor
- Surround yourself with PEOPLE who exhibit the change you desire – The power of Association
- Believe in yourself and Trust God to help you get through it.
The Power Lies Within You!
Thanks for this post Andrene I agree change is not easy and even when you are the one who wants to change it requires a commitment to yourself and your goal along with perseverance to see it through.
ReplyDeleteI am happy to report that with additional support from the people who have succeed in thier own spiritual transformation, you will and can change anything. Yes I speak from my own direct experience. XOXO
Thank you Dawn for reading and for concurring with my post. It means a lot to me esp coming from you, a veteran in this business.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes! Commitment and perseverance is definitely the key to change.
Sincerest regards:))The!
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