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What Does the Bible Say About Interpersonal Relations?

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Introduction

Interpersonal relations are an integral part of our lives. How we interact with others can significantly impact our well-being and the world around us. The Bible, a timeless source of wisdom and guidance, provides valuable insights on how we should conduct ourselves in our relationships with others. In this blog post, we will explore what the Bible says about interpersonal relations, focusing on essential principles and passages that offer guidance on love, forgiveness, humility, and more.

The Great Commandment

In Matthew 22:37-39, Jesus emphasizes the importance of love in our interpersonal relations: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbour as yourself.'" The Great Commandment underscores the significance of love in our interactions, reminding us to treat others as we would want to be treated. 

Conjecturing, Criticizing, Condemning Others

In Matthew 7:1-2, Jesus advises against making judgments: "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." This passage encourages us to avoid being overly critical of others and reminds us to focus on self-improvement rather than condemnation.

Self-righteousness, Arrogance, Smugness

Philippians 2:3-4 teaches us humility and the importance of considering others' interests: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility, value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." The Bible cautions against self-righteousness, arrogance and excessive pride in oneself or achievement and encourages us to embrace humility in our relations.

Anger, Retaliation, Holding a Grudge, Revenge

Ephesians 4:31-32 emphasizes forgiveness and letting go of anger: "Get rid of all bitterness, rage, and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." The Bible reminds us to manage our negative emotions and extend love and compassion to others.

Gossip, Slander, Lies, Deception

Proverbs 16:27-29 warns against gossip and discord: "A [corrupt] person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends (v28)." The Bible discourages dishonesty, gossip, and false or misleading statements that could damage a person's reputation, emphasizing the importance of maintaining integrity in our relationships.

Honesty, Forgiveness, Humility

Colossians 3:13-14 urges us to be compassionate, forgiving, and loving: "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity." These passages emphasize the virtues of honesty, forgiveness, and humility.

The Golden Rule

Matthew 7:12 presents the Golden Rule, a timeless principle for interpersonal relations: "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets." This fundamental teaching encourages us to treat others with the same kindness and respect that we desire.

Conclusion

The Bible offers profound guidance on interpersonal relations, emphasizing love, humility, forgiveness, and honesty. By following these principles, we can cultivate healthier, more harmonious relationships with others, ultimately contributing to a more compassionate and loving world. Remember that the wisdom found in the Bible is timeless and can be a source of inspiration for anyone seeking to improve their interactions with others


Remember, Even if you don't believe in God, believe in the Words...They make sense.

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Edited: October 20, 2023

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